A good woman makes a good wife and a good wife becomes a good mother.
A good mother gives birth to a good child. If you want to be one emulate these steps below:
A Good man makes a good husband and a good husband becomes a good father.
A good father helps the mother in raising a good child. If you want to be one, emulate the steps below:
1) Never raise your voice for any reason at your husband. It’s a sign of disrespect.
1) Never raise your voice for any reason at your wife. It’s a sign of your high male ego or extremely uncouth nature.
2) Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other’s keeper.
2) Don’t expose your wife’s weaknesses in front of your family and friends. Help her get over them with your support and encouragement. You are each others’ keepers.
3) Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don’t have a happy home.
3) If you feel your wife isn’t directly communicating with you or is moody, try to figure out what her problem is, communication is key. Do not make your own interpretation. Couples having healthy conversations have a happy home.
4) Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his ego, his Love for you will diminish.
4) If you don’t want to be compared with other men, never compare your wife with any other woman either. It works both ways.
5) Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them, the person who’s supposed to get rid of them is your husband.
5) If your wife feels your friends or the company you keep isn’t healthy, ask her why, hear her out. You need not cut your friends out of your life, but having a rational conversation hearing out both sides is recommended. She would feel included in your life decisions too. Also don’t dictate who your wife should be friends with.
6) Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
6) Never forget that you did not marry your wife only for her to do the duties of a maid or a cook. You are equally responsible in contributing to the household chores.
7) Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
7) Never expect your wife to take complete responsibility in taking care of you. She will be there for you, but you are a grown man, for God sakes. Take care of your own damn self, don’t expect everything to come to you on a platter.
8) Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
8) Both you and your wife and responsible for earning and running the family together. Nobody comes home empty handed. It’s a joint effort where there’s equal ccontributon and wise monetary decisions which leads to happiness.
9) Never be a wasteful wife, your husband’s sweat is too precious to be wasted.
9) The only way your sweat could be precious is if you sweat buckets of friggin’ diamonds. And what on earth does a “wasteful wife” even mean?
10) Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband’s right. You must give it to him how he wants it. It’s very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand on starvation for too long (even the anointed ones)
10) Ever heard of “NO MEANS NO”? If it’s that easy for you to find a replacement for the so called “duty”, threatening “starvation”, you deserve to be denied “service” everywhere and die of hunger.
11) Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
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